only criteria for a shag. A sneeze does not expect dinner or want to meet your parents, and hence, your fling expectations should be similarly low. #1 I met the most gorgeous, tanned, Tahitian sailor on a tiny uninhabited island when I was sailing through the San Blas. Only you know the direction you want this vehicle to. #13 I went home with a guy and he wouldnt umm, fit so he gave me homework for down there in case we hooked up again.". No girl thinks about sex when Uncle Nick's butt cracks a smile every time he reaches for a bocce ball. In this situation too, can being uncooperative make him like you more? "Then we both come in for the kiss." Thus begins a long and hot public display of affection, after which one of you will ask if you should go someplace private. "All a guy has to do is make it clear that he's far too busy for a relationship these days, or that he loves being single says Sophie. If you keep asking him questions, you will be running the risk of coming across as intrusive and overbearing. Just move on because that will bring you closer to the one you are meant to be with! "That way he eliminates any idea a girl might have that their one night of fun will lead to anything more substantial." No doubt the woman is perfectly aware of this, but it's better to be clear than to be called a bastard.